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April 09, 2025, 11:50:30 AM Ā»
A prisoner was sentenced to death by hanging, but a group of scientists wanted to test the limits of human belief and the power of the mind. They told him that instead of a hanging, he would be killed by a venomous snakebite.
To make it more convincing, they showed him a large, terrifying cobra. The prisoner, filled with fear, was then blindfolded. Unbeknownst to him, the scientists used a sharp needle to prick his hand in the same spot where a snake's fangs would strike, simulating a snakebite.
As they watched from a distance, the prisoner, believing he was poisoned by the snake, began to feel the effects of venom coursing through his body.
Despite there being no actual venom, the manās belief in the snakebite led to his rapid physical decline. Within minutes, the man collapsed and died.
This phenomenon, though shocking, is known as the placebo effect where belief and expectation can bring about real physical outcomes. It illustrates just how powerful the mind can be.
The mind can shape our reality, either for better or for worse. In this case, the prisonerās belief in his fate was so strong that it caused his body to react as though the bite had truly occurred, even though it had not.
This story teaches us a crucial lesson: our thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions have a profound impact on our well-being. What we believe about ourselves and our lives can either uplift us or tear us down.
Therefore, itās essential to maintain a positive outlook, as our minds have the potential to shape our realities. Never underestimate the power of your thoughts. Choose to believe in your strength and potential, for your mind can be your greatest ally in overcoming challenges.
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Reply #16 on:
April 10, 2025, 04:39:55 PM Ā»
We all make mistakes.
Itās one of the many things that make us humanā
Flawed, learning, growing, stumbling, and still trying.
But sometimes, we forget that.
We hold people to impossible standards,
expecting perfection from hearts that are still healing too.
Yes, people mess up.
They say things they donāt mean,
they fall short,
they hurt othersāsometimes even the ones they love most.
But one bad moment should never erase a thousand good ones.
One misstep doesnāt define someoneās entire journey.
Just like one storm doesnāt cancel out all the sunshine that came before it.
So when someone stumbles,
donāt be so quick to write them off.
Pause.
Breathe.
Remember the times they showed up for you,
when they loved you right,
when they held your hand through your own storms.
Give grace.
Not because youāre weakā
but because one day, youāll need grace too.
Choose to see the full pictureā
not just the moment they fell,
but also all the times they stood tall and strong for you.
Choose understanding over judgment.
Choose love over resentment.
Because itās easy to walk away.
What takes strengthāwhat takes heartā
is staying and choosing to see the good.
Even when itās hidden under a shadow.
Because sometimes,
all someone needs
is a little patience
to find their light again.
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Reply #17 on:
April 14, 2025, 10:39:45 AM Ā»
ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEESš
1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.
2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority.
3. Don't chase promotions. Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal development.
4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.
5. Don't ever compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.
6. Ensure you have a side business. Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.
7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip.
8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.
9. Keep your life, marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.
10. Be loyal to yourself and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and your boss may finally dump you when he leaves.
11. Retire early. The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today. By 40 to 50 be out.
12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when any eventuality occurs.
13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.
14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project.
15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.
16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too.
17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.
18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.
19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.
20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily.
Hope this will help you look at life positively.
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Reply #18 on:
April 16, 2025, 09:10:07 PM Ā»
Just because someone is quiet doesnāt mean they donāt know much. Sometimes, the ones who say the least are the ones who notice the most. They are listening, observing, and understanding.
Those who truly know donāt feel the need to impress. Wisdom isnāt measured by how much we say, but by what we choose to share.
As Nicky Gumbel wisely said:
āKnowledge is like underwear. Itās useful to have it, but not necessary to show it off.ā
So donāt mistake silence for ignorance. Sometimes, itās a sign of depth, patience, and true understanding.
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Reply #19 on:
April 17, 2025, 07:57:56 PM Ā»
No matter how good you are, you canāt impress someone who refuses to see your worth.
In life, you have to accept that some people will ignore you, no matter how talented, kind, or humble you are. Their perception of you wonāt change, no matter what you do.
The right people will embrace your flaws and uplift you, while the wrong ones will use them as excuses to keep you at a distance and bring you down.
The best thing you can do is love yourself fiercely and walk away from anything that hurts your heart.
The pain may feel overwhelming now, but it wonāt last forever
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Reply #20 on:
April 18, 2025, 06:54:06 PM Ā»
I want to go somewhere far away from reality. Somewhere quiet, peaceful and calm. A place where I donāt have to think too much, where the weight of the world doesn't sit on my shoulders. I want to leave behind the noise, the pressure, the sadness and the feeling of being stuck in the same place every day. I want to close my eyes and open them in a place where my heart feels light and my mind feels free. I donāt need anything fancy but just a small place where the sky is clear, the wind is soft and I can hear my own thoughts. I want to feel the peace that comes from being away from everything. I want to forget the deadlines, the worries and the things that keep me awake at night. I want to feel like myself again. Not the tired version of me that tries to smile through the pain but the real me, the one that laughs without fear and dreams without limits. I donāt want to run away forever. I just want a break. A little space. A moment to breathe. A moment to remember that life can still be beautiful and I can still be okay.
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Reply #21 on:
April 20, 2025, 08:28:10 PM Ā»
Let them be wrong about you. Let them say what they want, twist what they donāt understand, and build stories out of pieces they never bothered to ask about.
You donāt owe anyone the labor of explaining yourself just to make them feel better about their assumptions. The truth doesnāt disappear just because someone refuses to look at it. It stays steady, even when youāre misjudged, misunderstood, or talked about in rooms youāll never walk into.
Real peace comes when you stop chasing clarity from people committed to confusionāwhen you choose to stand quietly in who you are, even while others paint you in colors that were never yours to wear.
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April 22, 2025, 06:50:49 PM Ā»
The best thing I ever did was to stop telling everyone what's going on with my life.
Not everyone needs to know my struggles, my plans or my wins. I owe no one an explanation.
My silence is my weapon and my privacy is my power. Let them guess, let them wonder, Let them talk.
They don't deserve to know what I'm building or how far I've come. I don't need their opinions or judgements. What they don't know, they can't touch and they can't destroy. I'm not here to impress or explain myself. I'm here to win, to conquer and thrive on my terms.
My journey is mine and no one has the right to interfere. Every step I take in silence makes me stronger. Every win they don't see makes me unstoppable.
Let them stay in the dark while I rise in the light.
My success is my revenge, my progress is my proof and my victory will speak louder than any words ever could.
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April 27, 2025, 10:49:44 AM Ā»
You can learn a lot about someone by who they choose to stay away from. The people I avoid say more about my values than the ones I keep close. I donāt want to be surrounded by those who bring constant negativity, stir up drama, or only show up when they need something. Life feels lighter when youāre not stuck carrying the weight of people who donāt bring peace.
I prefer being around those who are honest, respectful, and bring out the good in others. So I naturally distance myself from the ones who lie, take advantage of kindness, or think putting others down makes them stronger. Itās not about thinking Iām better than anyone. Itās about protecting the energy I want to keep around me.
Some people confuse kindness with weakness and mistake quiet for being unsure. Thatās fine. I just choose not to give my time to people who donāt understand the kind of life Iām trying to build. So if you want to understand me, look at who I avoid. That will tell you more than anything I could do.
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May 01, 2025, 08:13:03 PM Ā»
As we journey through life, it reshapes itself in ways so quiet and subtle that we often donāt notice until much later. One morning, everything feels the sameāthe routines, the faces, the conversationsāall familiar and predictable. Yet, deep within those seemingly ordinary moments, change is quietly weaving a new chapter of your story.
Then one day, you pause and look back, only to realize how different things have become. The people who once felt like permanent fixtures in your life are no longer standing beside you. Some drifted away silently, like autumn leaves falling from a treeāno anger, no drama, just the natural flow of time taking its course. Others stayed but somehow feel distant now, their connection softened by the passage of days.
But hereās the beauty of life: into the spaces they left behind stepped new soulsāpeople you never expected would touch your heart so deeply. They didnāt come looking for someone pretending to be perfect; they found you as you truly wereāin your raw, evolving self. These connections werenāt built on ease but on authenticity. They stayed because what you shared was real.
Growth speaks its own languageāone that our egos sometimes resist because it demands letting go of old versions of ourselves. It stretches us, pulls at our edges, and asks us to shed layers we thought defined us. But beneath those layers lies something even more beautifulāa version of ourselves we couldnāt see before.
Thatās why being present mattersānot just physically, but emotionally. Savor every momentāthe laughter, the silence, the long talks, the unspoken understanding. Because someday, these moments will become memories. Youāll sit quietly, reminiscing about the past, wishing for just one more conversation or one more chance to linger without rushing. Life isnāt just made up of big milestonesāitās crafted in the small, unnoticed spaces between them. And those spaces? Theyāre sacred.
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May 03, 2025, 11:27:08 AM Ā»
I love being a woman with a high value mindset. I know my worth and I donāt settle for less than I deserve. I always carry myself with confidence, grace, and self-respect. I donāt beg for love, attention or validation because I already know Iām enough just as I am. I choose peace over drama, growth over comfort and quality over quantity. I focus on building a life Iām proud of, not just chasing things or people that donāt serve me. Being a high value woman means I take care of my heart, my mind and my goals. I protect my energy. I love deeply but I also set boundaries. I donāt chase, I attract. I inspire, I uplift and I stay true to myself even when itās hard. Iām not perfect but Iām real. Iām soft yet strong, kind yet powerful, gentle yet unbreakable. I know what I bring to the table and I wonāt lower my standards for anyone. I love becoming the best version of myself, a woman who is beautiful not just on the outside but even more on the inside. A woman who values herself, loves herself, and believes that the right people will always respect and cherish her. I trust my journey. I donāt compete with anyone because Iām too focused on becoming better than I was yesterday. I walk my own path with confidence and courage. I am proud of the woman Iām becoming who chooses herself every single time.
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May 05, 2025, 11:32:32 AM Ā»
Maturity comes when applause doesn't enforce you and criticism doesn't dismantle you.
That's when you understand that neither praise defines your value, nor rejection diminishes who you are.
There is a point in the journey where the outside noise no longer interferes so much, because the voice inside speaks louder. You start to be enough for yourself, to respect yourself, to recognize yourself without needing a crowd. And in that quiet place of self-knowledge, you discover a peace that does not depend on the acceptance of others.
Evolution is that: following whole, even when people don't applaud. Stand tall, even when they try to put you down. And continue to be a light, even when the world tries to dim your shine.
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May 10, 2025, 10:38:02 AM Ā»
I actually lose interest when I see myself trying harder than you.
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Iāll respect you more if you tell me what it really is instead of lying to me.
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Thereās so much to learn, unlearn and relearn.
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When someone helps you and theyāre struggling too, thatās not help. thatās love.
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No person is sent to you by accident.
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I donāt have ego. You talk, I talk. You keep quiet, I keep quiet too.
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Less expectations, Less disappointment.
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I want it all. The career, the love, the life.
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Little by little, day by day, what is meant for you will find its way.
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You deserve to be happy, not tired, not hurt, not stressed, just happy.
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May 10, 2025, 10:44:09 AM Ā»
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May 10, 2025, 11:39:56 AM Ā»
Thank you Yazhini Sissy
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