When “Washing The Dishes” Becomes A Huge Argument Among Couples,

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There’s A Hidden Reason Why


Living with a partner can be beautiful at first. As time goes by, the love probably doesn’t change, but arguments about bills, cleaning, and routine can cause strain on the relationship.

If you’ve lived with, or currently live with your partner, then you’ll probably identify with the following common argument: who should wash the dishes?

If there are dirty dishes left, if the kitchen isn’t tidy before going to bed, if there are plates left on the table… all of these factors lead to arguments that, in the end, aren’t even about cleaning and become something bigger. Experts insist that the argument from whoever is washing the dishes is never about the dishes. It has to do with the stagnation of the relationship, since, to begin with, nobody really ever fights about something like that, right

It’s a sign that you have dreams for your life, which aren’t compatible with those of your partner. When this happens, it can lead to open battles about it, or it can go the clandestine route, where your differences are expressed symbolically,” says John Gottman, executive director of the Relationship Research Institute and psychology professor at the University of Washington.

To find out if there is a romantic stagnation, we have to identify where the fighting couple is at. If they see it as the root of all the problems they’ve been having, then there is stagnation and many things to resolve.

Communication is the main weapon to avoid love becoming caught up in other problems, or to avoid a small problem turning into a giant one, which can’t be fixed.

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